And yes, I’ve taken the scissors to my ‘gay card’, put it in an envelope, and have mailed it back to them…….I have no use for it, or them. How dare you have an opposing position on ANYTHING, they’ll scream at you….I simply have decided that they are all toxic, are toxic to me, and I no longer identify as ‘gay’. I look at them now, after many years of observation, as complete sheep, lemmings, all being led to the cliff to jump off. LGBTQIA: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning/Queer, Intersex. She professes an undying love for gay bars and gay movies, and even admits to having watched gay porn. Being an ally means: sharing the power, taking a risk. gay sex, gay acts of an institution or group Intended for gay people, especially gay men. You must dress a certain way, talk a certain way, go to only certain places/venues for vacation, you must vote a certain way, in other words, you must march in lock-step to whatever that so-called “community” demands this week, or you are quite simply, out of the group. Although the number of gay weddings has increased significantly, many gay and lesbian couples like many straight couples are not interested in getting married.
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( obsolete) To wind (like a ball of thread etc.). It 'also refers to a person's sense of identity based on those attractions, related. bottom ( third-person singular simple present bottoms, present participle bottoming, simple past and past participle bottomed ) ( transitive) To furnish (something) with a bottom. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality is 'an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions' to people of the same sex. They fall into this separation paradigm, hook, line and sinker. Homosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior between members of the same sex or gender. I for one, don’t like to be around any guys who identify with the “gay community” any more. The social paradigm of separating homosexual leaning and heterosexual leaning men, which began as “gay identiy” in the late 1800’s, has been harmful to all men, no matter what gets them hard.
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It destroyed intimate friendships between these men to the point where if they went off with just their buddy(s) for the weekend, or out to dinner, or on a vacation, or (gasp!)-hugged or otherwise touched each other, scandal and the horrible suggestion of homosexuality was in the air, and could ruin them. It also separated them to the point that they couldn’t be intimate with their best friends and buddies, they had to marry one woman and never have sex with anyone else again.
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It was never right for society to separate a subgroup of men from their brothers, and instill fear, hatred and loathing into the larger group that leans towards women. Homosexuality is considered to be same-sex sexual attraction and behavior and 'gay' is a synonym of homosexuality. Aires the I think that old paradigm of separating men who lean towards women, and men who lean towards men, is beginning to die a much deserved death.